The longest loss

I miss Bobbit dreadfully. Words seem insufficient. Just videos today. How life goes on. The world does, indeed, turn.

So it goes... here is a good piece about grieving. It includes this quotation:

Vonnegut has been trying to explain [something] to the rest of us for most of his life. And that is this: Despair is a form of hope. It is an acknowledgment of the distance between ourselves and our appointed happiness.

At certain moments, it is reason enough to live.