I miss Bobbit dreadfully. Words seem insufficient. Just videos today. How life goes on. The world does, indeed, turn.
So it goes... here is a good piece about grieving. It includes this quotation:
Vonnegut has been trying to explain [something] to the rest of us for most of his life. And that is this: Despair is a form of hope. It is an acknowledgment of the distance between ourselves and our appointed happiness.
At certain moments, it is reason enough to live.
Me again. I just finished watching and listening to the videos. xx
Thanks for sharing the videos and the quote. I'm sorry for the loss of your friend Bobbit xx